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The Biggest Mistake I See Agents Make on Social Media (And How to Fix It)

October 14, 20256 min read

You’re posting consistently. You’re showing up every day. You’re sharing listings, market updates, and the occasional behind-the-scenes moment. You’re on social media—and that’s not nothing.


But here’s the hard truth: being on social media and having a social media strategy are two completely different things.


Being active is good. It keeps you visible. It shows you’re engaged. But if you’re not seeing the kind of business growth you want—if your posts aren’t turning into conversations, and conversations aren’t turning into clients—it’s because you’re missing the strategy.


And without a strategy, you’re just shouting into the void, hoping someone hears you.

Why “Just Posting” Isn’t Enough

Most real estate professionals are active on social media. They post regularly. They engage with comments. They share content. But they’re frustrated because all that effort isn’t translating into measurable results.


Why? Because activity without direction is just noise.


Think about it: when you post a new listing with just the address and a few photos, what are you actually communicating? You’re saying, “Here’s a house.” But you’re not telling your ideal client why it matters to them, what makes it special, or how they should take the next step.


When you share a market update with raw statistics—median prices, days on market, inventory levels—you’re providing data. But you’re not demonstrating your expertise by explaining what those numbers mean for someone trying to buy or sell in this market.


You’re present. But you’re not purposeful.


And the brutal reality is this: your ideal clients are scrolling past your content because it doesn’t speak to them. It doesn’t solve their problems. It doesn’t give them a reason to stop, engage, and reach out.


Here’s what happens when you’re active on social media without a strategy:


  • You’re invisible to the people who matter most. Your content blends into the feed because it’s generic. It’s not tailored to the specific pain points, desires, and questions of your ideal client.

  • You waste time and energy. You’re putting in the work—writing captions, editing photos, engaging with comments—but you’re not seeing a return on that investment because there’s no clear goal behind each post.

  • You lose confidence. When the likes and comments don’t translate into leads, you start to question whether social media even works. (Spoiler: it does—but only when it’s strategic.)


And the most frustrating part? You know other agents who are crushing it on social media. They’re getting engagement. They’re converting followers into clients. They’re building a brand.


What are they doing differently? They have a strategy.

The Three Components of a Social Media Strategy That Actually Works

The difference between being on social media and having a social media strategy comes down to three core components. When you implement these consistently, your content stops being background noise and starts being a powerful business development tool.

1. Every Piece of Content Should Have a Clear Goal

Before you hit “post,” ask yourself: What is the purpose of this content?


Are you trying to:


  • Build awareness with a new audience?

  • Establish your authority and expertise?

  • Generate leads by driving people to a specific next step?

  • Nurture existing relationships and stay top-of-mind?


If you can’t answer that question, don’t post it. Every single piece of content should be intentional and aligned with a specific business objective.


Example:


  • Without Strategy: You post a new listing with the address, price, and a few photos.

  • With Strategy: You post the listing and share your detailed process for preparing a home for sale—staging tips, pricing strategy, pre-listing marketing. Your goal: to position yourself as the expert who gets homes sold quickly and for top dollar.

2. Every Piece of Content Should Include a Clear Call to Action

Here’s where most agents drop the ball: they create valuable content, but then they leave their audience hanging. You have to tell people what to do next.


A call to action (CTA) isn’t pushy or salesy—it’s helpful. It guides your ideal client to the next logical step in their journey.


Examples of effective CTAs:


  • “DM me ‘GUIDE’ and I’ll send you my free seller’s checklist.”

  • “Comment ‘MARKET’ below and I’ll share what these numbers mean for your neighborhood.”

  • “Thinking about selling this spring? Let’s chat—link in bio to schedule a free consultation.”

  • “Save this post and share it with someone who’s preparing to list their home.”


Every post should have a next step. Otherwise, you’re creating content that generates engagement but not action.


Example:


  • Without Strategy: You post a market update with statistics about median home prices and average days on market.

  • With Strategy: You post the same market update, but you explain what the data means for buyers and sellers in specific scenarios. Then you end with: “Want to know what your home is worth in today’s market? Drop a comment or send me a message—I’ll get you a personalized analysis.”

3. Every Single Post Should Add Value to Your Ideal Client

This is the foundation of everything. Your content must solve a problem, answer a question, or address a pain point for the specific type of client you want to attract.


If your ideal client is a first-time homebuyer, your content should speak directly to their fears and concerns—navigating the mortgage process, understanding closing costs, competing in a bidding war.


If your ideal client is a luxury seller, your content should demonstrate your expertise in high-end marketing, discretion, and maximizing property value.


Generic content attracts generic attention. Valuable, client-focused content attracts the right attention.


Example:


  • Without Strategy: You post a photo of a beautiful kitchen with the caption “Amazing kitchen in this new listing!”

  • With Strategy: You post the same photo, but you talk about the three most important features buyers are looking for in kitchens right now—and how this home delivers on all of them. Then you connect it to your ideal client’s needs: “If you’re a growing family looking for a home where everyone can gather, this is it. Let’s talk.”

The Bottom Line: Strategy Beats Activity Every Time

Being on social media is good. It’s a start. But if you want to grow your business—if you want to turn your online presence into a reliable source of leads and clients—you need a strategy.


A strategy that:


  • Gives every post a clear purpose

  • Guides your audience to take action

  • Delivers real value to the clients you want to attract


When you consistently execute a strategy like this, social media stops feeling like a time-suck and starts feeling like the most powerful tool in your business development arsenal.


Ready to stop posting and start strategizing? Let’s build a social media plan that actually moves the needle for your business. Message me “STRATEGY” and let’s talk about what’s possible.

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